Friday, April 12, 2013

Twin Flame vs. Soul Mate, Karmic Relationships

Your Twin-Flame or what is sometimes called a Twin-Soul, is literally,the other half of your soul.

In the beginning of time,you were created with two complete souls,one male one female,so that you would always have a companion that is energetically part of you!! Because of this separation that you had,with your soul at this time,your unconscious mind is always "longing" or "searching" for this connection.  Thus why we human beings are always searching for the 'other half' of something.  Explaining this for those who are homosexual is a different story: When you do meet your Twin-Flame, it is such an indescribable closeness.  There will be no doubt in your mind about who you have met.  Your souls take on their own little dance of homecoming!! You will feel as though you are on a new energetic level,and most time your body will beat differently, you will think differently,and you will feel differently...all of these things are not found so intensely in any other type of relationship,and this is absolutely life-changing to both of you. This can happen in same sex relationships,where you have incarnated as the same sex,but nevertheless,it is no less powerful than the relationship of man and woman.  More people in this lifetime will not find their twin soul, it's quite simple as you are just not ready to meet with them.  Like most human beings we settle for what we believe is the bargain.  

Did I mention that sometimes when you meet your twin you can't stand them?  :) 

When I do couples readings it is not an uncommon question for someone to pipe up and ask, "Is this person my soul mate?"  Everyone uses this term loosely because they are unaware of the true meanings behind the term 'Soul Mate' and 'Twin Flame'.  
A Soul Mate is generally someone who is on the same path as you.  You both went to High School together, you both were in art, band, choir whatever the instance is.  You later down the road run into this same person hundreds or even thousands of miles away from home but end up just miles apart or even right next door.  Your Soul Mate is usually someone you feel instantly comfortable with, non judgmental and you feel no threat what so ever.

Signs of a True Soul-Mate:

Instant magnetism,that you BOTH share
Unexplainable feeling of connection that is very deep right from the start.
A calm atmosphere, and inner calm.
There is instant trust
There is instant lifting of spirit
There is no nervousness
There are no judgments
There is patience & encouragement
There is a shoulder to cry on
You are never made to feel bad or lower than them
There is great equality
You think very much alike
Sex is optional-never forced or expected.
There is gentleness towards each other.
This person will also be your best friend
Will never restrict you
Loves you for YOU not just your physical appearance

Last but not least.... Karmic Relationships.  Even if these are necessary for some of us, please be aware that these relationships can actually become somewhat toxic.  
The one thing I can say for sure is you are drawn to them like a moth to a flame.  The Karma or energy between you needs to be rinsed clean,so you can then continue your mission, and rise above, to your true happiness in life.If you are not ready for this, you may stay in unhealthy relationships, for fear of being left alone,unhappy,never find someone else & the list goes on.
Karmic relationships are never meant to last, unless you like arguing, fighting, name calling, cheating etc... the list goes on and on.  Most people get addicted to a certain type of misery, misery LOVE'S COMPANY!  

A Karmic Relationship has some of these characteristics:

A very intense attraction( can't stop thinking about them)
A feeling of nervousness when the other is near (wanting them to love you )
An addiction to sex,drugs,drinking etc.(Non-stop party)
A "Bad Girl/Boy" persona (wanting to be safe/appear strong)
Arguments & hurtful words-resulting in sex afterwards (this is abuse!)
Giving up your interests and who you are to please them
Restricted Financially-always taking from you
Abuse of all kinds
Selfishness toward responsibility (you have to take care of everything)
Never letting go of past hurt( often bringing up the "ex" or parents)
Jealousy ( you are not allowed to hang out but they are)
Rage( outbursts of anger & property damage,door slamming etc)
Isolation ( no contact with friends no work no family)
Name calling (disrespect of feelings)
Weight Loss/Gain ( both from severe stress!)
Nice when they want something ( sweet talks until you give in)
Calling Just For Sex then ignoring you ( purely physical)
Lies (will lie even when caught!)
Cheating ( cheats with you,will cheat on you)
Social aggression(Hates attention that you get-gets into fights)
Obsession( calls you non stop-watches you, smells your clothes etc)
Breakups ( then cries or has a drama to pull you back in)
Depression (cutting, spacing out, loss of reality,sleeps all the time)

Did I mention even when these people make you feel this way you will drop everything when they call?  If you're pulling your hair out at the beginning of the relationship imagine what it'll be like toward the end and how your friends and family will suffer with you.  Get your fresh start!  Get your power back!!  Don't believe the put downs you may have received from this person-sometimes, a dark energy may be lurking with them-in which case, they will feel threatened by your light. 

THEY WILL STILL TRY TO CONTACT YOU!  Even if not to get back together, but to just make you miserable!  They will say things like, "You owe me this." Or the very famous, "I was thinking about it and maybe we shouldn't have broken up."  As soon as you don't give in the tune will change and name calling or insulting with threats of their friendship being taken away.  Good!  Take your little little dog too!

It will not be an easy process. But a lot easier than living with them! 
You may go through a very hard time after the split.Your children, family and your ex may continue to make you pay for mistakes,but still,you have to push forward.If you truly want the deepest love you can have on Earth, you won't find it behind closed doors with someone who is not.


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